Responsibility is defined as the state or fact of being responsible, answerable, or accountable for something within one’s power, control, or management.

Did your man cheat on you?

Take responsibility!

I know what your thinking but that is not what I said.

Cheating is a Choice not a Coiencidence.

But in most cases cheating is like the caboose on a train or in other words it is the last car in a long train of events.  And the question to ask is not “how could he be so selfish?” how could he do this to me? And all the other typical blame game questions.

I’m sorry this site is not for the typical wife who wants to react in a typical way.  This for those who are looking till death do us part wives who have resolved that divorce is not an option.

The question you need to be asking does not have ace anything to do with how did he end up in the caboose with another woman.

First of all let’s be happy it was another woman.


Thats right I said Be Happy

What there to be happy about – That it was another woman.

Was it another Man?

Was it a little girl

Was it your little girl

Was it a little boy

Was it your little boy

Ok so then you got something to celebrate and work with.

Unless he is an adulterer then the problem should be fixable

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So now now that I have you attention let’s deal with the right question.

The question you really need to be asking is “was I driving the train?”

Was I the porter who showed him the caboose.

Take responsibility notice I didn’t say take blame

What I mean is many affairs happen because of (bad choices) I know we got that don’t interrupt.

Men are very deeply emotional creatures.

ok let me explain I don’t believe good made men 80% rational and 20% emotional and women 80% emotional 20% rational.

God is no that cruel.  I believe that God built within us all the same capicity or for the most part with the same common operation system.  I would go so far as to say even with the same software.  Memory capacity is identical except a few obvious hardware differences.

God is a God of balance (he even says a false balance is an abomination)

Men are just as emotional as women, they just do not lead with their emotions.

If you want to explore that thought more go here ( why are men and women so different)

so in other words we have the same software installed but we use them win different importance and f







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